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HAVE YOU LOST YOUR ROADMAP TO LOVE?

HAVE YOU LOST YOUR ROADMAP TO LOVE?

In another lifetime I used to feel victim to the vagaries of Love, to the way it could sweep me up with as much ease and detachment as it could pummel me against the raggedness of cliffs, leaving me torn, open, gasping for air. I did not understand the Art of Love,...
YOUR FEAR MAKES FOR STRONGER LOVE

YOUR FEAR MAKES FOR STRONGER LOVE

A “fata morgana” (the Italian translation of Morgan Le Fay, the fairy shape-shifting half-sister of King Arthur) is a mirage. It’s an optical illusion that results from temperature inversion. It’s the illusion that objects in your horizon...
YOU’VE GOT YOUR RELATIONSHIP LENS ON BACKWARD

YOU’VE GOT YOUR RELATIONSHIP LENS ON BACKWARD

I want I choose I claim I am Each of these statements indicate where you are in process and in #relationship to your desire. “I want” implies a lack, the absence for a thing wanted.  You don’t have it yet. “I choose” is a selection after consideration, a decision...
DO YOU INVEST IN LOVE?

DO YOU INVEST IN LOVE?

Since the 1980’s, when Jane Fonda and Jamie Lee Curtis made aerobics a “thing,” you could find me in a group class, dancing to the beat.  Walking through the gym, I would spot trainers with their clients on the machines.   I never thought that kind...
HOW ARE YOU HOLDING OUT ON YOUR DESIRES?

HOW ARE YOU HOLDING OUT ON YOUR DESIRES?

I used to crave approval. Believing that the way to happiness was paved with people pleasing, compromise, and giving into what others wished, I was the best “no waves” maker on the planet. Twisting into unrecognizable pretzels I would ensure the outcome of...
IS YOUR DOOR CLOSED TO LOVE?

IS YOUR DOOR CLOSED TO LOVE?

Relationships function as a conduit for both manifesting creativity and for mirroring the extent to which we have the capacity to express love. If you find yourself seeking deeper intimacy, noticing a pattern of attracting experiences that lack in this regard,...