


YOUR FEAR MAKES FOR STRONGER LOVE
A “fata morgana” (the Italian translation of Morgan Le Fay, the fairy shape-shifting half-sister of King Arthur) is a mirage. It’s an optical illusion that results from temperature inversion. It’s the illusion that objects in your horizon...
YOU’VE GOT YOUR RELATIONSHIP LENS ON BACKWARD
I want I choose I claim I am Each of these statements indicate where you are in process and in #relationship to your desire. “I want” implies a lack, the absence for a thing wanted. You don’t have it yet. “I choose” is a selection after consideration, a decision...
DO YOU INVEST IN LOVE?
Since the 1980’s, when Jane Fonda and Jamie Lee Curtis made aerobics a “thing,” you could find me in a group class, dancing to the beat. Walking through the gym, I would spot trainers with their clients on the machines. I never thought that kind...
HOW ARE YOU HOLDING OUT ON YOUR DESIRES?
I used to crave approval. Believing that the way to happiness was paved with people pleasing, compromise, and giving into what others wished, I was the best “no waves” maker on the planet. Twisting into unrecognizable pretzels I would ensure the outcome of...
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