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YOU’VE GOT YOUR RELATIONSHIP LENS ON BACKWARD

YOU’VE GOT YOUR RELATIONSHIP LENS ON BACKWARD

I want I choose I claim I am Each of these statements indicate where you are in process and in #relationship to your desire. “I want” implies a lack, the absence for a thing wanted.  You don’t have it yet. “I choose” is a selection after consideration, a decision...
DO YOU INVEST IN LOVE?

DO YOU INVEST IN LOVE?

Since the 1980’s, when Jane Fonda and Jamie Lee Curtis made aerobics a “thing,” you could find me in a group class, dancing to the beat.  Walking through the gym, I would spot trainers with their clients on the machines.   I never thought that kind...
HOW ARE YOU HOLDING OUT ON YOUR DESIRES?

HOW ARE YOU HOLDING OUT ON YOUR DESIRES?

I used to crave approval. Believing that the way to happiness was paved with people pleasing, compromise, and giving into what others wished, I was the best “no waves” maker on the planet. Twisting into unrecognizable pretzels I would ensure the outcome of...
IS YOUR DOOR CLOSED TO LOVE?

IS YOUR DOOR CLOSED TO LOVE?

Relationships function as a conduit for both manifesting creativity and for mirroring the extent to which we have the capacity to express love. If you find yourself seeking deeper intimacy, noticing a pattern of attracting experiences that lack in this regard,...
HOW ARE YOU OVERGIVING IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS?

HOW ARE YOU OVERGIVING IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS?

January 1st and they’re off! The energy of resolutions is as palpable as the gates opening on racetrack horses at the sound of a gun. I don’t know about you, but personally, I’m done with racing into a new year.  Having spent the last few weeks in quiet,...
HOW IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP APPROACH FAILING YOU? (part 1)

HOW IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP APPROACH FAILING YOU? (part 1)

In my parent’s living room, there used to be a set of Matryoshka or nesting dolls. As a child, I remember unpacking them, one by one, and putting them together, separately: from the largest to the tiniest (my absolute favorite one), all dressed in the same way...