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The Third Key to Love: Ongoing Growth

The Third Key to Love: Ongoing Growth

Once John (not his real name) found his match, he gave up working on himself. It showed up in forgetting to send in his prep form, texting last minute to cancel our calls and, altogether, giving off the vibe that the coaching process had lost its usefulness. In the...
Dating when you’re an independent woman

Dating when you’re an independent woman

Julie (not her real name) had just discovered the man she’d been dating had a double life when she sought me for relationship support. He was seeing another woman simultaneously. This was not the first time Julie had found herself sucking on the fuzzy end of the...
Second Key to Love: Conscious Coupling

Second Key to Love: Conscious Coupling

When Margaret found the lid to her pot, she had consciously put her relationship seeking on hold. Instead, she focused her attention into what made her happy, brought her pleasure, fed her. She was attending a charity event with a girlfriend when she met him. His...
The first key to Love: Readiness

The first key to Love: Readiness

“You’ll never find another who loves you as much as I do!” I screamed as he walked away. This was me, 13 years ago, desperately clinging onto the vestiges of my rapidly dissolving relationship. Although I’m not proud of that moment it was a landmark event that...
Looking for Love in a cancel culture

Looking for Love in a cancel culture

Love is addicting. You know, the butterflies, the sense of floating on air, everything looking just a little brighter… This is the part of Love that gets us hooked into the chasing after, all caution to the wind, the “happily ever after.” (Cue...