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YOU’VE GOT YOUR RELATIONSHIP LENS ON BACKWARD

YOU’VE GOT YOUR RELATIONSHIP LENS ON BACKWARD

by | Jan 20, 2023 | Blog

I want I choose I claim I am Each of these statements indicate where you are in process and in #relationship to your desire. “I want” implies a lack, the absence for a thing wanted.  You don’t have it yet. “I choose” is a selection after consideration, a decision...
DO YOU INVEST IN LOVE?

DO YOU INVEST IN LOVE?

by | Jan 13, 2023 | Blog

Since the 1980’s, when Jane Fonda and Jamie Lee Curtis made aerobics a “thing,” you could find me in a group class, dancing to the beat.  Walking through the gym, I would spot trainers with their clients on the machines.   I never thought that kind...
HOW ARE YOU HOLDING OUT ON YOUR DESIRES?

HOW ARE YOU HOLDING OUT ON YOUR DESIRES?

by | Jan 10, 2023 | Blog

I used to crave approval. Believing that the way to happiness was paved with people pleasing, compromise, and giving into what others wished, I was the best “no waves” maker on the planet. Twisting into unrecognizable pretzels I would ensure the outcome of...
IS YOUR DOOR CLOSED TO LOVE?

IS YOUR DOOR CLOSED TO LOVE?

by | Jan 5, 2023 | Blog

Relationships function as a conduit for both manifesting creativity and for mirroring the extent to which we have the capacity to express love. If you find yourself seeking deeper intimacy, noticing a pattern of attracting experiences that lack in this regard,...
HOW ARE YOU OVERGIVING IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS?

HOW ARE YOU OVERGIVING IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS?

by | Dec 25, 2022 | Blog

January 1st and they’re off! The energy of resolutions is as palpable as the gates opening on racetrack horses at the sound of a gun. I don’t know about you, but personally, I’m done with racing into a new year.  Having spent the last few weeks in quiet,...