“I’m currently struggling with the following: the men I find myself most attracted to are, like me, fiercely independent, intelligent, adventurous, interesting, passionate, and funny. Unlike me, the only interest they seem to have in a partner (me) is sexual. These...

Being in a relationship – be it collegial, romantic, or familial – means that you’ll experience moments where words need to be expressed and you choose to remain quiet.   An impasse. Time goes by and the situation, the things left unsaid live inside you,...

How do you make sense of the stories told about your father when he’s gone?  As one of our most influential models for relationships, our parents set us on the lifelong path for the ways we engage with others– be it romantic or otherwise – a path...

“1 or 2?”  “2 or 3?”  “3 or 4?” asked my eye doctor as she flicked each lens on the Phoropter at my recent checkup. (don’t be impressed.  I had to look up the name of the contraption.) Some of the lenses were so close, it was challenging...

“Who don’t you trust? You? Me? or God?” This is the question I recently asked a prospective client who had received very clear signs on how to move forward. As a coach who works primarily with highly sensitive clients, this is not an unusual...

There comes a moment in any relationship where throwing in the towel seems like the most viable option.  You say you’ve given it your all: put in the time, the effort and are still not receiving what you desire and need from your partner. You may...

In the the first stage of relationship work my clients begin the real work of truth telling. It means taking a long hard look at all the ways they’ve been adjusting and shape-shifting based on cultural conditioning and perceived expectations As...

Last week was spent in collaboration with my mentor, and a team of women to bring new programming to members of our community of highly sensitive entrepreneurs.  What struck me was the high level of functionality, focus, dedication to the work...