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THE PROBLEM WITH RECEIVING (part 3)

THE PROBLEM WITH RECEIVING (part 3)

Are you aware of your “havingness level,” how much you are willing to receive before the sensation of all that goodness feels like too much? Without an awareness to some of the factors that limit how much goodness you can take in and stay conscious for, you will...
THE PROBLEM WITH RECEIVING (part 2)

THE PROBLEM WITH RECEIVING (part 2)

Over 20 years ago, after a very messy, painful, and contentious #divorce I found myself in a new relationship.  I was the fittest, happiest, and most fulfilled I had been in my life up to that point.  I felt for sure, this new relationship would be a...
THE PROBLEM WITH RECEIVING (part 1)

THE PROBLEM WITH RECEIVING (part 1)

Years ago, I had a client who came to me looking for a relationship.  In our sessions, she confided that men hit on her quite often, but rarely wanted more than sex.  One afternoon she went clothes shopping with some girlfriends.  One of her...
POLE DANCING

POLE DANCING

It is customary for clients who seek out my relationship coaching support to have either thin boundaries with others (difficulty saying no) or overcompensate with thick boundaries (avoiding intimacy and close relationships).  The dominant culture trains us to see...
LEADING THROUGH LOSS

LEADING THROUGH LOSS

Over the last year, I’ve experienced several family losses. Interestingly, many in my circles are having similar experiences and yet relationship grief is not dinner conversation. It is not a topic we are culturally taught to connect over, at the water fountain, over...