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DO YOU BELIEVE YOU’RE ENOUGH?

DO YOU BELIEVE YOU’RE ENOUGH?

There once was a snail making its way up a cherry tree in the middle of winter. From a branch above, a bird saw it slowly moving up the grey cold bark and said, “You know, there are no cherries up on those branches.”  Without missing a beat, the snail...
YOU RECEIVE WHO YOU ARE

YOU RECEIVE WHO YOU ARE

After sharing their relationship struggles, a new client asked why they hadn’t found the perfect partner.  My answer was simple: “You are not yet the person your ideal partner could locate right now.” You only receive who you are. Your dreams,...
WHY YOU’RE NOT THE ONE THEY’RE COMMITTING TO (PART 2)

WHY YOU’RE NOT THE ONE THEY’RE COMMITTING TO (PART 2)

When K. told me she struggled with an attraction to men, who, like her, were fiercely independent, intelligent, adventurous, interesting, and funny, but repelled by marriage and children, and only interested in sex, I shared this was a common issue.  In my...
WHY YOU’RE NOT THE ONE THEY’RE COMMITTING TO (PART 1)

WHY YOU’RE NOT THE ONE THEY’RE COMMITTING TO (PART 1)

“I’m currently struggling with the following: the men I find myself most attracted to are, like me, fiercely independent, intelligent, adventurous, interesting, passionate, and funny. Unlike me, the only interest they seem to have in a partner (me) is sexual. These...
THINGS LEFT UNSAID

THINGS LEFT UNSAID

Being in a relationship – be it collegial, romantic, or familial – means that you’ll experience moments where words need to be expressed and you choose to remain quiet.   An impasse. Time goes by and the situation, the things left unsaid live inside you,...