HOW IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP APPROACH FAILING YOU? (part 2)
When a friend recently complained about their sister in law’s unreliability, she engaged in an offensive weapons approach to get the relationship back on track: criticism and contempt. Criticism: “She said she would call me back but didn’t” (complaint about her...
THE RISK TO LOVE
The relationship I have with my husband is unusual. When we first started dating there was very little about it that felt familiar in the sense that it did not resemble anything either of us has experienced before. From the onset, we chose to co create an expectation...
DO YOU BELIEVE YOU’RE ENOUGH?
There once was a snail making its way up a cherry tree in the middle of winter. From a branch above, a bird saw it slowly moving up the grey cold bark and said, “You know, there are no cherries up on those branches.” Without missing a beat, the snail...
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