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WHY YOU’RE NOT THE ONE THEY’RE COMMITTING TO (PART 1)

WHY YOU’RE NOT THE ONE THEY’RE COMMITTING TO (PART 1)

“I’m currently struggling with the following: the men I find myself most attracted to are, like me, fiercely independent, intelligent, adventurous, interesting, passionate, and funny. Unlike me, the only interest they seem to have in a partner (me) is sexual. These...
THINGS LEFT UNSAID

THINGS LEFT UNSAID

Being in a relationship – be it collegial, romantic, or familial – means that you’ll experience moments where words need to be expressed and you choose to remain quiet.   An impasse. Time goes by and the situation, the things left unsaid live inside you,...
DEATH OF A PARENT

DEATH OF A PARENT

How do you make sense of the stories told about your father when he’s gone?  As one of our most influential models for relationships, our parents set us on the lifelong path for the ways we engage with others– be it romantic or otherwise – a path...
WHAT YOU’RE NOT SEEING

WHAT YOU’RE NOT SEEING

“1 or 2?”  “2 or 3?”  “3 or 4?” asked my eye doctor as she flicked each lens on the Phoropter at my recent checkup. (don’t be impressed.  I had to look up the name of the contraption.) Some of the lenses were so close, it was challenging...
DO YOU HAVE TRUST ISSUES?

DO YOU HAVE TRUST ISSUES?

“Who don’t you trust? You? Me? or God?” This is the question I recently asked a prospective client who had received very clear signs on how to move forward. As a coach who works primarily with highly sensitive clients, this is not an unusual...
YOU ARE THE ONE GIVING UP ON YOURSELF

YOU ARE THE ONE GIVING UP ON YOURSELF

There comes a moment in any relationship where throwing in the towel seems like the most viable option.  You say you’ve given it your all: put in the time, the effort and are still not receiving what you desire and need from your partner. You may...