HOW WILL YOU CHOOSE TO LOVE?
You cannot selectively numb out emotions. When you numb out pain, you also numb out joy. The process of readying for love and intimacy demands that you feel every single emotion. Without judgment, allow it to pass through. Our culture does not make room for the full...
HOW IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP APPROACH FAILING YOU? (part 2)
When a friend recently complained about their sister in law’s unreliability, she engaged in an offensive weapons approach to get the relationship back on track: criticism and contempt. Criticism: “She said she would call me back but didn’t” (complaint about her...
THE RISK TO LOVE
The relationship I have with my husband is unusual. When we first started dating there was very little about it that felt familiar in the sense that it did not resemble anything either of us has experienced before. From the onset, we chose to co create an expectation...
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