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Help! I can’t trust men….

Screen Shot 2014-01-11 at 11.21.59 AM“When mistrust comes in, love goes out.” ~Irish saying

For the majority of my marriage I felt betrayed by my ex-husband, but didn’t have the courage to leave him. Instead, I made him pay for it over and over again.  Through subtle digs, dismissiveness, and less subtle slights, I repeatedly expressed my contempt for him. And,  instead of forgiving or walking away, I let hurt, resentment and anger build a wall between us.

It didn’t take long for him to respond in kind, our relationship charged with mutual bitterness. We clung on to the injustices, two people sharing a suffocating space, overwhelmed by the weight of everything that went unsaid.   Angry and indignant, we just couldn’t find a way to let go.

Until, sixteen years later, on a plane ride back from Oregon, I realized I could no longer stay.

And trust?  Well it took me decades to feel like I could do so with another.

This week I share what it took for me to reclaim my ability to trust a man. Click below to hear how I did it so you can, too.

(Oh… and that face at the end, was me not being able to shut the video off…. Nice, huh?)

Now it’s your turn:  Answer this question and share your response below.  What would it look like to give trust, starting right now?  To let your Freak Flag Fly?

In love, service and pleasure,



2 Responses to “Help! I can’t trust men….”

  1. Noreen Murphy says:

    Hi Joelle, It’s been a long time since we’ve seen each other!!! I love that you are a life coach!!! I have been following your blog and love the topics you are covering!!!! A lot of them have been issues that I have been dealing with. I am looking forward to more inspirations from you. Take care Noreen.

  2. Joëlle says:

    Noreen! Thanks for stopping by. I am so tickled you are getting something from this content. It is very close to my heart. I hope you find tools you can apply to your life. I miss you. xoxo Joëlle

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